Contemplating Burgundy in Two Parts

Part 1: Lyon, Where Pink is Love.

Credit @ V.Necchio

Lyon, the second biggest city in France and the home of fascinating people.  Slightly contemptuous and weary from a long bus ride, we pulled into our hotel and immediately went for a walk to discover what sights we could before a dinner at the famous, but terribly overrated, Le Nord.  To our amazement, we stumbled upon a parade, but one that, in any other moment in time, would be considered absurd, but in Lyon the home of absurdity, it was absolutely ordinary.  Celebrating the Dance Biennale for 2010, each troupe had constructed quite elaborate floats so to speak, complete with ornate costumes, music and dancing.   Arriving about half way through the event, we approached the route and found a very interesting group, dressed completely in pink, with their leader dressed as pink Elvis.  “Pink is love, love is pink”, the slogan that was repeated again and again in song, and in lyric gave us a very inspired impression of the city.  The warm afternoon air, the sun on our skin, the crowd of people gathered in celebration of absurdity left us in the most uplifted, slightly euphoric mood.  We followed Mr. Pink Elvis around the main square of the city, following his banter of loving each other, his talk of love, and his cries of passion for what seemed like hours.  My time felt suddenly short.  Thoughts of past lives sprang to mind, and I had an instant feeling of déjà vu – this is something I can’t explain, except possibly through the absurdity that was Lyon, that beautiful, amazing autumn day, walking, laughing, and experiencing all that Lyon, its people and my mind could offer.  Soon enough, upon returning to our hotel, feeling fresh, the absurdity of Lyon continued in what was probably the most absurd dinner of our trip, at Paul Bocuse’s Le Nord.

Part 2: Dijon, It’s Not Just Mustard.

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Dijon gives you the feeling that if you lived there and moved away, you would instantly regret your decision.  We arrived, without flourish on a cold afternoon, walking through the cobbled streets with our suitcases in tow, creating the most awful noise several blocks long.  I was sure that since we are mainly Americans, we would be considered rude, and in fact, probably were.  Our hotel, nothing of notoriety, but cozy none the less actually provided us with a small kitchen set up, for which we used only the electric tea kettle and the refrigerator.  Without fail, we were given time to explore the small city, and with bags in hand, wallets out and ready, we realized that apart from Dijon mustard, we had no idea where we were, or any clue about what to look for.  Mustard, we realized, was only a very small part of what made Dijon tick.  Food was the most central expression of what it means to be from Burgundy, of what it means to live in Dijon.  Food there was idolized in a new way that we didn’t see in Lyon, perhaps because of lack of time, or really, lack of motivation.  We didn’t realize the extent to which Dijon affected us as a group until we began to realize that we had to leave it.  No one wanted to talk about it, but it was a realization that we all made at some point in time.  Wondering through the cavernous market the last morning, each person scurrying around for those hard to find items, those French specialties, those little nibbles in which we can attach our memories of our time there to – we loaded up the bus back to Italy.  We bought a whole hell of a lot of stuff, the bus was jam-packed with people, pork, wine, cheese, bread, and delectable treats of all other sorts.  We bought mustard, sure, but not from the slightly cheesy, brash La Moutarderie Fallot that we officially visited, but instead from the other one, Maille with only slightly less flare for spectacle.  Sure, the mustard is good, and it is from Dijon, and we bought it in France, but its just mustard in the end.  The bus ride home was tedious, because we knew what we had done; overindulged in the loveliness that is the food from Dijon, from Burgundy, from France.  We knew that we had not only done serious financial damage, but apart from that, serious damage to our palates, realizing that now, this place of succulent gastronomic items would be lingering in our minds.  Arriving in Italy, forced back into whatever kind of reality it is that we live here, unloading our bus at the usual spot, we realized that our purchases left us with no option; we had to get the car and drive all of it back home, resulting in a rainy walk for those less fortunate.  Dijon is more than mustard, it is the product of our imagination, if we lived in a world where food is elevated to magnificent levels, people are genuine, and mustard is just another condiment.

Change in Plan

As I am preparing to depart for Italy, I think I will begin some post on what I’ll be learning there, thinking about, experiencing etc.  I am by no means, a daily blogger, so, on occassion, i’m sure i’ll come up with a few things of note.

Against Mediocrity

For anyone who has ever questioned their existence. Mediocrity is the epitome of what it means to be unhappy, to willingly not like what it is you are doing, where you live, where your life is headed.

All good is hard. All evil is easy. Dying, losing, cheating, and mediocrity is easy. Stay away from easy.” -Scott Alexander


Easy is the word of the day. Everything we have in this world has been made for our convenience. For gods sake, it is too easy sometimes, and for this easiness we give up our freedom, we give up our ability to chose for ourselves and act as a person who has choices. We give up our ability to be creative engineers of life who are excited by living, who are engaged with the world in a way that isn’t just a glossy surface, following the newest diet craze, looking at celebrities in magazines to understand that they are actually people as well, but to engage the world, our lives, in a way that motivates us to change, to serve ourselves, to be happy and healthy individuals.

Too many times I have been met with people who are angry that they never have time to travel, they never have the money to travel, they can’t leave this or that. There are certain life choices that we each make, and when you make those decisions that will effect your near and distant future there are consequences that come along with that. Fair enough, you have a house, a car, a job, 2 weeks of vacation that you plan to spend at your parents house, or, doing landscaping to your house; these are not bad things. These do not make you a bad person, or, normal. They just make you who you are. You have responsibilities and commitments and that is your chosen path. That is right for you that is not necessarily right for everyone, and most of all it is not right for me.

This is my chance to ask you to realize that I live a difference existence. I have made my choices and these are right for me. I have put my priorities in line and with that comes certain consequences for me. I don’t own a house, and I don’t plan to own one for awhile. I don’t have a car and I don’t need one. I plan my life around places where I don’t need one. I don’t have a steady job, unless you consider traveling and being a student. These are valid things to be doing. I am not married and I have no plan to be in the near future. All of these things give me one thing that the traditional route in life doesn’t — freedom and the ability to chose for myself where I want to be. I am not tied down financially, or emotionally. I have no need for a car, for a mortgage or a dog. I am quite happy with my roundabout way of living, with my ability to change my location in life on a whim. This does not make me a looser. This does not make me a slacker, or a bum or a misfit. This makes me, me. This makes me who I am. I am doing the things that I want to do. Seeing the places I want to see. Taking a broad view to life, checking out various places in the world and making a decision to be on the road, out and about or just gone.

I don’t expect you all to understand. I don’t want pity and I’m tired of hearing “how do you do it”, “how can you afford to travel so much”. I think I’ve explained that. I have no permenant commitments to one location or one person. I have no car and no insurance. These are things I am ok with. I live without them just fine, and without spending all that money on those things, I’m able to satisfy my need to travel–my need to study and explore and learn. I am not judging you for your decisions. I am merely making a statement to say that this is my path, this is my route in life and it is right for me. I know it is, otherwise, I would be doing something else.

Hopefully, your path is right for you. Hopefully, we can each find out what we are meant to be, where we are meant to go and what we are meant to be doing. Whatever path you are on, make sure it is the one you want. Course correction is enevitable, but honestly, I feel so strongly that that is what directly factors into all of those mid-life crisis issues, male and female. Live now! There will never be a better time to break away from the status quo, to end mediocrity in your life and to become who you want, go where you want and do what you want.